The recent court appearance by Dr. Sombat Jitmoud in his son’s murder trial case was one such reminder. He wholeheartedly forgave the man who was responsible for his 22-year-old son’s murder and made the entire courtroom cry. He absolved the murderer from the blame and placed the responsibility on the devil for misguiding him. And he did so embodying the teachings of Islam.Power of Forgiveness vs Power of Animosity and Revenge.
This father honored us all, as Muslims, as parents, and as humans.
It also brought a moment of introspection and self-reflection. While it is easy to praise someone for their courage, forgiveness, and mercy, it is much more difficult to embody these traits in our day to day lives. If we can’t be merciful in our daily actions, then how can we do it when a real trial occurs?
As Muslims, we are supposed to be governed by Allah SWT and His Prophet SAW’s teachings. That’s what the word ‘Muslim’ means—the one who has submitted to the will of Allah SWT. In any condition and situation, we are supposed to ask ourselves, how does Allah want me to behave at this moment? What would please Allah SWT?
And the retribution for an evil act is an evil one like it, but whoever pardons and makes reconciliation - his reward is [due] from Allah. Indeed, He does not like wrongdoers. (Ash Shura 42:40)
And indeed, the Hour is coming; so forgive with gracious forgiveness. (Al Hijr 15:85)
Dr. Jitmoud brought the haters of Islam to their knees with his sincere actions. He forced the mainstream media to cover his actions, and Allah SWT blessed his intention of showing the true spirit of Islam to the point millions have been exposed to the true teachings of this beautiful religion within a matter of 48 hours.
This is what Allah SWT wants from us. To think beyond ourselves; to think about our eternal life; to think about the ummah and its benefit.
If we succumb to anger and seek revenge for other’s actions, how will it really benefit us? Prophet SAW told us that anger is from the devil. How can any action whose very source is evil, bring goodness? If we retaliate against anyone out of anger, how can our actions be blessed and accepted by Allah SWT?
On the other hand, all actions that Allah SWT loves will be blessed by Him SWT. Allah SWT loves forgiveness, He loves those who control their anger, He loves those who hide the sins of others instead of exposing them, He loves those who spread goodness and support goodness, He loves Al-Muhsineen.
Who spend [in the cause of Allah] during ease and hardship and who restrain anger and who pardon the people - and Allah loves the doers of good; (Al Imran 3:134)
If we forgive, who will benefit? If we seek revenge, who will benefit?
And this benefit has to reach beyond us to our families, our societies, and the entire ummah? Will the ummah of Muhammed SAW benefit if I seek revenge? Or will they benefit if I practice forgiveness? All Muslims have benefitted from Dr. Jitmoud’s actions even if we don’t realize. If nothing else, it has cracked the negative image of Islam for many people and softened their hearts towards Muslims. It’s way more than what we can say for ourselves! This man singlehandedly demonstrated the power of forgiveness. Now not only he but inshaAllah his entire family, including his deceased son, will reap the benefits of his actions for eternity. They have already been honored in this world, and InshaAllah will be honored in the afterlife as well.
This is the story of a sincere believer.
There is a saying in Arabic, ‘hunaka riyah, riyah al-ghadab wa riyah as-salamah’
There is wind, wind of anger or wind of peace
One wind destroys what it touches, while the other benefits everything it passes over. We all carry the wind in us, in the form of our souls. What we need to ask ourselves is, are we bearers of goodness or are we causing corruption?
It needs sincerity, vision, and light from Allah SWT to see what it is we are really spreading. May Allah SWT allow us to be spreader of mercy, peace, tranquility, guidance, and elevation of Islam; and not otherwise. May Allah SWT cover our sins and protect us from the evil of ourselves and evil of others. May Allah SWT allow us to honor His religion and let us die with sincerity of La ilaha illal lah Muhammed Rasul Allah.
*For a deeper understanding of this topic, please read chapters on ‘afw’ in Riyad us Saliheen, Bukhari, Tirmidhi, and other ahadith books.
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